tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post1419706188701128351..comments2023-06-30T10:38:11.424-04:00Comments on Daily Dan: the whole aaron storyDaily Danhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02647751888887814010noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-33694160154006716142012-12-27T05:36:23.251-05:002012-12-27T05:36:23.251-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-75354275309664607432009-07-22T02:26:16.089-04:002009-07-22T02:26:16.089-04:00I don't know that sounds terrible to me-- I th...I don't know that sounds terrible to me-- I think I would've just run away after he said 'what the fuck is this'... seriously-- I just would've run away.<br /><br />I really feel bad for what you are going through, but am glad that things are getting better. Its probably a very good thing that he knows how you really feel. The person that I went through similar feelings for and I had similar conversations, but I always 'played down' my feelings for him, because I knew that he didn't feel the same way that I did. I don't regret that-- I mean it wasn't going to turn out like I hoped, but I knew that it would sting really bad to hear the actual words...the finality of such a thing. However, when he did start dating a girl a year or so later, I couldn't help but feel much pain. It was so ridiculous, and frustrating because I couldn't control it. It was so much pain. This has been about 4-5 years now, and we are still in touch-- I feel much different about the relationship but there will always be pain there. I have a lot of mixed feelings about the whole thing, and I still don't really know if I regret anything or wish I never would have known him or what... I wish you well- I'd love to chat on MSN sometime, but I can understand why you don't want to talk about this stuff. Much Love<br /><br />StevePlanetx_123https://www.blogger.com/profile/02092798475390586321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-24851291748032050272009-07-20T21:57:38.662-04:002009-07-20T21:57:38.662-04:00Haha I thought when you said in one of your other ...Haha I thought when you said in one of your other posts that you filmed him you were outside the shower haha not after hiding your camera (^^,)<br /><br />Must have been rather nerve racking hehe.<br /><br />Glad things are ok between ye anyway :)<br /><br />CianKeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01145880836258531733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-44263856013823827552009-07-18T21:30:36.230-04:002009-07-18T21:30:36.230-04:00Well done for getting the story out there. It'...Well done for getting the story out there. It's a brave thing to do. Writing it down can really help.<br /><br />Having resolution of the Aaron thing is important. You can move on with your life as a gay man and your friendship with Aaron can change to a new, more honest level.billyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17766254524955556469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-92069310861280342002009-07-18T14:21:56.049-04:002009-07-18T14:21:56.049-04:00Hey, was going to email, but u said to comment, so...Hey, was going to email, but u said to comment, so I'll comment... and maybe email later...<br /><br />I've got to echo NG's comment!<br />And yes, the vid was a really bad thing to do, but I've learned (thru my own mistakes) that sometimes the best of friends can come from doing something stupid like that... so I wish all the best to you in having Aaron as your friend.<br /><br />Hope things are still good with his Father?<br /><br />While it's not as bad a story as I expected, I can understand how you felt, and feel now.<br />So, THANKS for taking the time and effort to write it all down.<br /><br />Keep well,<br />GrahamUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17810099740237001639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-10138061023020049592009-07-17T13:57:39.360-04:002009-07-17T13:57:39.360-04:00Dan
Glad things worked out with Aaron and his dad...Dan<br /><br />Glad things worked out with Aaron and his dad. The video its gone ut at lest you had your look and now know for sure he isnt like us<br /><br />hope you find someone soon and streaking very 70s lol<br /><br />take care and be safe<br /><br />bobcvn70https://www.blogger.com/profile/08247117122250829095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-22312203422599370312009-07-17T03:03:51.779-04:002009-07-17T03:03:51.779-04:00I was gay, but didnt want to be, but i wanted to w...I was gay, but didnt want to be, but i wanted to want to be. I understand. Its kind of like my view with girls. I don't want them but I want to want them. :P<br /><br />Nice to know that both your crush and your crush parent are cool with your homosexuality. Its kind of sad that he isn't gay; but chances tend to be that someone isn't...<br /><br />Feel sorry for you for your week of depression...<br /><br />Since it's immoral to change who other like, it would be awsome to be able to choose who we ourselves like...<br /><br />anyway, sorry for the barrage of "..."<br /><br />have a good time with your trip bigdan.tom bombadilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13014750361443446108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-90689613657003798702009-07-16T23:47:18.397-04:002009-07-16T23:47:18.397-04:00Sometimes total rejection is way easier to deal wi...Sometimes total rejection is way easier to deal with.. It's fucking great that he was so understanding and I give you lots of respect for dealing with the situation so well. I've been exactly there and I know how hard it is.<br /> Also, I agree with Landyn.. most of the time, the "what if" part is the hardest of all.. this has been tearing you apart inside for a long time and it's really really good that you've finally let it all out. I'm sure the experience will do nothing to harm, and in fact probably elevate your relationship with Aaron.. and the feelings will eventually fade. <br /> <br /> It's a whole new ballgame man.. happy hunting!Dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12430866303919079125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-91653560523947473902009-07-16T23:23:14.546-04:002009-07-16T23:23:14.546-04:00That was not so terrible, just very awkward I thin...That was not so terrible, just very awkward I think. But to expand on the other comments above - now you can move on - and you don't have to fret and worry over dealing with your repressed feelings towards him, since you know it's a dead-end in that respect, and you'll be just friends.Sethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05432734680316100034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-49925073600905379062009-07-16T21:43:57.343-04:002009-07-16T21:43:57.343-04:00*whew* I was expecting a story a lot more depressi...*whew* I was expecting a story a lot more depressing than that, I'm glad it's not as bad as I was thinking it would be :)<br /><br />It's good that he is cool with your sexuality, it's good to have a friend in real life who knows the real you.<br /><br />*big hugs*Jeremyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08709206856213038579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-14346979412815818322009-07-16T20:48:27.388-04:002009-07-16T20:48:27.388-04:00at least you have a clear understanding that he is...at least you have a clear understanding that he is unavailable now so it gives you a way to be able to move on without the "what if?" feeling.<br /><br />glad it turned out to be okv1b2n3m4https://www.blogger.com/profile/01843429813659405016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6772124306525918640.post-76838959562045792792009-07-16T14:01:50.934-04:002009-07-16T14:01:50.934-04:00Well, I had thought that you were upset because aa...Well, I had thought that you were upset because aaron rejected you after you told him you're gay and love him.<br /><br />I'm glad that wasn't what happened. I can imagine how embarrassed you are about what you did with the cell phone. It's good that you are embarrassed — that's a healthy reaction, IMO. It must have really felt terrible for a while. Now that's all behind you and you can carry on living. You've got a friend who isn't a potential bf. That's good. You're out to him and you can be yourself. That's good too.naturgesetzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15268507379933286863noreply@blogger.com